It takes two people for a marriage to work, 1 person for it to fail.

You sound like an incredible husband and father. It sounds like you have done all anyone could possibly do.

Love yourself the way you do others. Someone can only disrespect you if you allow it.

Would you want any one of your children to be be living the type of marriage and relationsjip that you are ? How would you advise them if their spouse was doing this?

I know you want to keep it together for the kids, but I will tell you my son is so much better off not witnessing the unhealthy dynamic between me and his father.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer