It only seems like common sense to me but I've been accused of seeing things that I think are obvious, yet others do not.

DR states to watch and see what works, right?

Well, detaching is important and at least for me something that I must refresh but I do get it. Understanding and application are mutually exclusive. Understanding how to hit a golf ball and being able to do it are not the same. And even the best can't do it correctly every single time, right?

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Good point RR17. Otherwise, why even post it here? When my wife started her 4 day sex initiation binge on Friday, how could I not help but wonder what it meant?


Yea, I would say that that would make me wonder. Proceed with caution, Steve.
We all need to hear this when behavior changes. IMO

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.