My H said it would take a miracle for him to feel differently and he didn't believe in miracles. But, you know what? I am seeing a light at the end of the tunnel. We are a long way from being healed but I can now see its possible.
I have to remind myself to keep at what was working and stop doing what wasn't working. But, we are sharing AND making plans in the future which I didn't think would happen so quickly after some of the really harsh things he had said at one point.
I think there is a light for you too... Just remember the steps you need to take to get there. The hardest part for me was having the good days followed the next by H withdrawing again. Those were hard to digest but now its easy to see that he was still plagued with uncertainty.
