Ruhappy, All WAW or MLC can't deal with stress is one of there many triggers trust me is crazy how our S can go from being calm like no worries or like nothing happen but as soon as you hit them with reality our S they put wall back up and anger I myself is goiing on 11months and see this with my W. I honestly have learn this it has taken me time but have now answer with one word only here is an example of mine.
W how is d9 back she fell and I know she was crying Me d9 is GOOD W thank you Me welcome
I know for someone like you and me this might be hard to do but right now as you can see our S get angry very easily they can't deal with the reality of life the day to day basis so remember you are the grown up. Just imagine your dealing with a teenager your not going sit there and argue with a kid just listen and say ok. I know all this sounds crazy but actually is going help you keep your insanity. Don't let your H upset you especially with your health take care of yourself always.
When your H said where you at or what you doing or who is there and you answer his questions your giving H the power over you. I read somewhere you got fired from being his W so you no longer have to respond as a wife if it has nothing to do with finances then there's nothing else to talk about unless H says am ready to talk about our R. Which I can tell you, you just started this rollercoaster ride your H is just doing a Temp check making sure he still having you on a hook. Keep reading as you will see all WAW or MLC have same patterns. Protect your finances PLEASE
At BD Lesbian marriage Me39,W36 S9,D9,S8 adopted all three Together almost 10yrs Bomb Drop - April 2017 W movedout - May,2017 OW June,2017 Currently 2018 Me40, W38 S10,D10,S9
