TacoEd, any chance of an EA or PA? In my experience most people do not move on until they have someone in the wings. For me and what I've read, moving out is the number one sign of their being someone else.
The other red flag to me is the "does not care to divorce". Seems like she is keeping you as Plan B.
Good luck my friend, post often. It helps.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
