The name for this one comes from an article I read about life's challenges being met by finding solutions (therefore moving forward in life) or by finding distractions (therefore being stuck in life)...
Job, I can't quote from the thread doodler killed (thanks doodler, lol) since its been closed. Would you mind copying my last two posts (the long ones) to this thread..
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized