Last night was somewhat interesting. Early evening was fairly stressful as all 3 kids were going out at various times. S12 had a softball practice at 6, S18 had to go to work around that time as well, and DD20 was preparing to go out for the evening, so Supper was fairly rushed, and this being the first day on Weight Watchers for W and DD20, it was very stressful as W had to figure out what to prepare and then make, in effect, two different meals. And she did NOT choose easy things. Suffice to say, the kitchen was a DISASTER. So while she was bringing S18 and S12 where they needed to go, I got a good head-start at organizing and tidying, which W appreciated (even tho she had told me to leave it). I then dried while W washed, and she had to go at 7 to pick up S12, so I pretty much finished up. Later, tho, W took a phone call informing us that a fairly close acquaintance's husband had died suddenly that morning, so we have a funeral to go to on Saturday.
At any rate, even with all the stress and rush, W and I were able to have some nice cuddling on the couch, and when we went to bed, I spent some pleasurable minutes kissing her very slowly. I took Schnarch's advice to slow down enough to feel her, and I definitely felt the connection.
