The one I focused on immediately, what Amoafwl already mentioned. WHY WHY WHY if she is so bad with money, and only pays you back half the time, do you still lend her money?
I think you are a bit of an enabler. Obviously a few things you have to bail her out, like the daycare. But anything that you are not on the hook for you need to stop rescuing her! If she overdraws her account, oh well. If she blows all her money and has not gas money. Oh well. Stop rescuing her. Let her fail. Read Sandi's recent post in the Re-detaching thread about what detachment really is.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
