I totally agree with Coconut. If you truly aren't interested, there is no need to discuss further. You said your peace and that is it. But having said that, since you and I are SO similar, I know that is EXTREMELY difficult for you to do. You want to hear him out and empathize with him. Not necessarily get svcked back in, so to speak, but just hear what he has to say. Hang tough if you are serious about being finished. As you well know, you aren't being fair to him or yourself if you go through with the conversation, knowing it is still going to end the same way. That is just my opinion and you have to do what is right for you. Either way, good luck!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
