Anyways, we get married, ups and downs like any married couple. After about 4 years, my wife decided she was no longer in love with me due to my gaming addiction and lack of attention. She wasn't a priority. She let me know after I got back from a trip that she was moving out. So abrupt, had already gotten a place. No notice. I'm hurt, angry, but I knew that I had a problem gaming and quit. She moved out. I was lost. Angry, hurt. I did all the wrong things the first month. Pleading, angry, struggled with feelings of betrayal. One day I came upon Divorce Busting. I focused on myself, GAL, followed divorcebusting 180 rules, and kept up hope - showed her my best, tried to prove that I could grow from that. Long story short, the fire was re-kindled, fell back in love. I was at a place of complete peace with getting back together or moving on with my life and I took the jump to get back with her. Life was good again. Beautiful light shone on both of us.
Reading what you write, it sounds like you are addicted to this "in love" feeling.
If I were your wife, I would have a hard time believing if we were to reconcile (again) that once the 'fire' started burning lower 2-3 years down the line that we wouldnt be in exactly this spot for the third time.
Ive asked you twice and Im still very unclear - what is it that is different now than the last BD? Why would your W expect that the third go-round would be different still?
