So I just got a text from stbxh. Someone is starting to feeel the sting and reality of divorce. He is saying how he will have a mortgage to Pay when he is 65. Our current house is mortgage free. He said that he will be working until he past retirement to pay his bills. This is the first talk since he left that he had mentioned any uncertainty in his future. I feel this is a big step. Just not sure which way it will go.
