I broke down, cried. She consoled me, afterwards we went to Costco and I put a hand on her shoulder and she looked pained, angry.

Led to a conversation, I started. What's the matter.

Argument, tough feelings, she called me controlling and manipulative. I co'erced her into allowing physical touch.

I will continue to change my ways and fixing what I need to fix.

I am staying out of the house too for the next 3-5 days. Space and time.