Thanks BT.....I think I will just leave it at 35 for now and go with it. The first lady that popped up was 40 so I can handle that. If my W does ever get them done I probably won't end up giving her the satisfaction either. By that time I will probably be dating someone and would have had some many awesome experiences I wouldn't even be interested. I still need to add a couple more pictures to my profile and I should be good to go come 4/11.
J....go to hear. Everyone that I have talked to has indicated that they have really enjoyed the dating experience again so I am looking forward to it. I went out with some friends last night and my neighbors W asked when it was going live. I told her in one month and she asked why in a month and I told her that is when the D will be final. I had her proof my BIO as well and she gave it a thumbs up. For some reason being Divorced first is something that is important to me before I put myself out there again.
But like you said as long as your open and honest to each their own. Good for you, I am glad you are enjoying the interaction!!
N....the wind is starting to blow. I have no clue if my W and I will ever find our way back to each other but I do know that once the D is final going out and meeting other women is something that I am going to experience. I feel good about myself, I am confident, have a lot to offer and have no expectations. I am approaching it from an open mind. I feel like a horse in the gate ready for the race to start. It's been a long journey of growth, self discovery, looking inward and realizing I have a long life to live and it's time I get off the sidelines. I didn't ask for it but I am prepared to make the most of it. A little nervous but trying really hard to only look out the front window. This is not punitive towards my W and wanting to show her what she is missing, this is about me taking another step forward to continue forging my new life.
