Newbie In Need Of Guidance #2

[rminer]

Wow, sandi. That is a lot to think about. Thank you for laying it out so clearly.

I think you are right when you say that the WW will deny it. My W is very strong willed and does not like to admit when she is wrong. She will definitely do this.

The WW does not need "evidence" shown to her.....but she may demand it... ...The intell is for your knowledge. She already knows what she has done!

I'm glad for the clarification on this. You kept saying not to reveal your source but get intell. It will be pretty obvious to her where the intell I gather came from if I show it to her.

The tough part about that will be suppressing my "male ego" as you call it. I will want to show her I'm not as dumb as she obviously thinks I am.


Now here is a H U G E "if" question. Say she becomes so guilt ridden she decides to out herself to me. Should my approach be the same?

I only ask because I know someone that this happened to. It is a very rare occurrence I know, but I thought it might be worth asking.



If we ever get to a transparency plan she will protest. Is it wise to explain the need for it? Somewhere you said that it was for the LBS's comfort in the process. Should that be said or something similar?