Newbie In Need Of Guidance #2

[rminer]

I haven’t read your story from the beginning, sorry, but reading recently I understand how hard it can be to change the thought process. I to was a guy that would do anything for my family, my W, always trying to make sure she had everything she wanted but along the way I forgot about me and my life.

It certainly is a change of gears for me. I've never really given it too much consideration and just accepted it as normal. Funny how that works.

Today my wife text me wanting me to fix a logistical problem for her to make her life easier. Normally I would have jumped through hoops to make it happen. Today I just empathized and in a nutshell "Good luck figuring it out."


Feels strange not being the one to fix her problems anymore.

Suggestions I would make are to look for Meetup groups or FB groups in your area... ...Another thing I did was that I found a local sports team

Never thought of looking for groups like that. I will have to do that. Thanks.

We do have a pretty good OHL here. S8 loved going last year, so I bought some ticked for next weekend.

When you think she won’t see, trust me, she will especially since you are still in the same house.

Well, let's hope she cares then. She is so wrapped up in her own world, she doesn't seem to care about anyone or anything she once did any more.