I really think that the way we hold on, is to avoid the grieving. But our marriages are dead. And you have to face it before reconciliation can begin. It puts you in a ppsition of strength.
I'm just realising this now, 3 months into my sitch.
It sounds like you are on the right track 2surviv. Good luck!
Married 9, Together 16 M:39, W:41, S:11, S:7 BD: 12/3/2017 In house sep: 1/7/2018 EA: March 2017 (ongoing), PA: Yes ______________________________ Attempting to defy gravity, by falling up