best to avoid any new romantic relationships I think as you said for a few reasons 1.we may and usually do pick another that may have same/worse issues than H 2.harmful for children 3.jumping in too soon may also prevent our inner healing and grieving from R breakup with H Relationships may ne difficult to get put of-
I'm sure there are more But you may want to concentrate on making friends with women right now and healing-(just my 2 cents)
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow