Thank you Cali. You live in Cali? Ha ha.

I thought mediation was different in that you do it together. With this route, it seems more like going back and forth? I feel like I am going behind his back this way, but he declined mediation so it is what it is.

I remember your several attempts at mediation, and all the postponed appointments, in fact it's one of the fears I had with going that route with H. I look forward to my consult because I have alot of questions.

Like you, I plan on finding out what I would get if it was left up to the courts so if he squabbles, I have that to fall back on. I really don't know what to expect with H or how he will react to it all. I left a message for the lawyer, just waiting on a call back to set appt.

I had such a busy day today and I am pooped! I am so happy it's Friday smile

Have a great weekend


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
-live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-