I am no expert on this at all, but consider a dating coach. I have set myself the target of chatting to two guys a day IRL.
Just chatting to strangers on general stuff and then some practice dates with some lovely men who I would like as friends as much as anything. No expectation.
If there are 6m peeps on dating web sites, they must be wandering around everywhere.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW