Good update M...thanks for catching us up. It sounds like you are doing great and continuing to move forward. The longer your sitch continues the more distant you will grow from your W and you will really start to see her for who she is. It sounds like you are starting to make those realizations. I also felt that the longer it went on the harder it would be recon as well.

I like your confidence, it sounds like you got your swag back!

As L would say......keep on keeping on!


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018