Sara, you're a very strong person. I admire that you feel 'done.' I still miss my husband terribly. I wish I could lose that feeling. I hope your husband makes the divorce easy and fast. That'll be great if he lives nearby. I really wonder though how he'll feel when he's actually gone, living alone in an apartment away from the warmth and comfort of his family? Sounds depressing for him. I hope you and your kids will enjoy all the times you have people over and can have fun in your home without anyone bringing you down. It's good that you see positives in this situation. It seems you'll adjust quickly since you've already been through so much agony.
