This is kind of a side thread but I expect I am not the first to wonder.

Slipping or making mistakes while doing LRT or rules or guidelines or whatever involves Detaching is normal and expected. After all, we are human. I believe that the easiest and most common way to get off track is to reattach, so to speak when S shows some response to previously mentioned measures.

So my question is, is there any good advice on getting back on track DETACHING after slipping from ones intended path?

A way to resume when you warm up to S's reaction to your 180 etc.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.