Quote: I'm wondering what is your purpose in setting such a conversation up in the manner in which you did it?
Because it was the only way I could. If I hadn't raised the issue this morning, it would have been FAR harder to get into a situation this evening where such a conversation was possible. My only intent, initially, was to "set up an appointment" to have a discussion. W's reaction forced the issue somewhat, and I know I didn't handle myself very well at the time, but hopefully with practice I'll get better at it.