Dude that is big time pursuit and your trying to serve her a big fat piece of cake. If you communicate to her that the door is always open you will be in limbo land for a very long time and it will suck the fuching life out of you.
I totally get what you're saying, and I'm not planning on doing anything more. It has more to do with her seeing my parents than anything else. I feel like it's going to be a lot harder for her to want to come back if she thinks they hate her. I honestly doubt she even comes, and if she does, she'll be uncomfortable anyway. But I don't want her worrying about what they think preventing her from coming back. I'm just trying to keep the road back home smooth by eliminating that from the situation. I don't plan on reminding her tomorrow either if she doesn't contact me in the morning. She called a little while ago, and I didn't answer. I'm just going to continue what I have been doing from this point on. I guess I just see this as a quick reminder that I'm not the bad guy she wants to make me out to be. Like I said, I have no expectations and I'm not planning on inviting her to do anything again...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
