They do things to remind us that they are in control and test to makes sure that you are still an option. They use sex and other techniques.
The best we can do is to DETACH.
At the least it keeps them guessing and regains some power. Silly game.
Why not have a discussion like adults that they once loved and now at least respect each other?
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.