OK Tim, now I better understand your motives behind the desire to have the discussion. Your expectations seem low, you motives seem to be about what you are feeling and learning. I will agree with what Dave said, we all have the right to take a stand and do it in our own time frame.
You are showing her respect by giving her a heads up on changes she is going to be seeing in you. I'm getting it, I'm getting it!! Cathy
