Originally Posted By: Steve85
Thanks for the perspective with kids. As you can tell I have a D14 that I worry immensely about.

Can I ask about this: 12/17 W says moving out after schools out 5/18

What is it about school being out that makes it so important for her to pick that date?


Good question.

I believe that W using it as some sort of passive-aggressive threat. A leverage against any perceived threat from me. Not any physical threat but a way to prevent any R talk etc. A way to retain power.

W has said she is going to see if D15 wants to continue in the same school. Yesterday W texted something about the school. I responded, "Is she even planning to go to that same school next year?"
W responded, "As far as I know."

IDK


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.