Thanks for the perspective with kids. As you can tell I have a D14 that I worry immensely about.
Can I ask about this: 12/17 W says moving out after schools out 5/18
What is it about school being out that makes it so important for her to pick that date?
Good question.
I believe that W using it as some sort of passive-aggressive threat. A leverage against any perceived threat from me. Not any physical threat but a way to prevent any R talk etc. A way to retain power.
W has said she is going to see if D15 wants to continue in the same school. Yesterday W texted something about the school. I responded, "Is she even planning to go to that same school next year?" W responded, "As far as I know."
IDK
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.