waw maybe #3

[bhappy2]

Ok so i need some advice, W's birthday is coming up and we have not spoken in 3 weeks. Do I get her a card? present? not sure what to do.

Updating Lawyer sitch: Last contact between lawyers was Feb. 5th my lawyer has reached out several times to discuss financials. W's lawyer is not returning emails or phone calls since my W was told the MH has to be sold. Also W was told that she will be caring for the dog as I do not want to get an appartment with the dog. Also told that she will have to provide me with medical insurance b/c she pays for that now. Another sitch has arose and that is she withdrew har 401K after she consulted her lawyer, this is not good for her and took out a personal loan which she still has yet to diclose the amount.

I am not mind reading here but I believe that the fantasy to be able to move out and start to hang out with this younger crowd and have me pay for it is crumbling.

W has been laying on the couch all day and night I believe that she may be depressed.

I am sticking to DB all the time now and I will not waiver at all. Following Sandi's rules has really helped me.

I am off to the gym, them getting dinner with my two S's then work.
I am picking D19 up from college tomorrow and we will find some fun stuff to do this week. Good things are happening!