Oh!!! One more thing. I had a good friend have a courageous talk with me the other day. She was worried that I wasn't doing enough for my personal life (I have a tendency to serve others more). Basically, she knows how badly I want children of my own someday and the clock is ticking and she is scared that I might miss the window of opportunity if im not actively trying to be in a relationship.

Ugh. That was hard to hear. (And we don't have to get into the semantics of relationship =fulfillment) but she is right. I Dated for a bit and had a great time, but now I have other priorities and I don't have the energy to date.... Especially with the added pressure of finding a baby daddy! (Rolls eyes)


Me- 30's H- 40's
T-10 M-5
I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15
D filed by H: September 16