Ha! Yeah good point. Maybe it will be easier than I anticipate smile

I think my biggest emotion with the ring is disappointment in her, just the feeling of easy she can erase the memory of us together. She loved that ring and to just go sell it for some cash to me just shows how selfish and irresponsible she currently is in this state of mind. I guess that makes me feel a little sad. While my W was never over the top disrespectful with yelling, screaming, etc. it is my belief that it burns inside of her.

I will say though everything this site has taught me and with following Sandis rules has got me to this point of it really not having much of a effect on me.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018