Ugh. Its one thing when they act like an a-hole to us. But its tough seeing them be that way to their own child. Just further proof that it is all them.
Im sorry your daughter has a father like that. But she got extra lucky with you as a mom. I think one great parent can definitly make up for it. Imagine if you guys were still together and you had to support him when he behaved that way? Had to show a united front. At least now you can show her different. Not sure the wording to use on a child though.
My son is 7 now. His dad is not rude. Just uninvolved. Thats how he was with me. Well i will tell you my son knows this. He tells me 4th of july (which he spends with his dad) is his special holiday with grandma. He has told me that if daddy ever killed me he wouldnt be his daddy anymore. And he frequently tells me that he loves me the most. (I tell him he has so Much love in him that he can love everyone) My son seems to hold a grudge just like me. Or more likely, his dad just ignores him so he never really got attached.
It [censored] that they dont have things perfect. But You know what, the world is just not perfect. And like everything we can use it as a way to teach them.
