Quote: How can you accurately do that when you are anxiously awaiting her "response" to the book?
No, HP, I really don't think that's what I'm after. I thought I was pretty clear in my last post that that is NOT what I'd be doing. I'm not making her participation a requirement at all. I don't need her permission to change - I've already begun the process. I'm just wanting to point her to a resource that I think might help HER to understand better what I'm going through. If she doesn't take advantage of it, that will be HER choice, but it won't change MY approach - it might just make this process a bit harder on HER. Ultimately, though, I do realize I can't help HER to deal with her demons, she'll have to do that on her own, just as I'm beginning to do. She has her next appointment with her C next Wednesday - I do think this might just change the dynamics of THAT somewhat...
