Newbie In Need Of Guidance #2

[rminer]

Sorry but FB is not the way to make real friends. I was on FB for 3 months back in 2009 before I deleted it. Never looked back. And I have more friends than I have time to spend with them! If you are relying on FB to foster friendships I am afraid you are in for a disappointment. FB friendships are at arms' length at best.

I am well aware of the pitfalls of FB. I'm not going to fall in to them.


Again, if you read what I wrote you would understand that it is not to make friends. It is to find and reach out to the old ones I never should have let go of and make amends where I need to. I only know where one of my old friends is and that is because I went to his funeral 21 years ago. The rest I have no clue. FB is simply a tool to help find them.

As I said, I have let friends go throughout my life for various reasons. Maybe we will become friends again, maybe not. At least I will have made the attempt.

Think of this as part of my 12 step program, if you will. I need to get myself right before I can get my marriage right. Isn't that part of DBing?