Meg, I can't remember if there was an OW or not? I think you didn't think so.

I read a couple of books on women's infidelity a few weeks ago. The author made an interesting remark. She said wives (and this would apply to husbands too) don't need their own place in order to "figure things out". They need their own place in order to sleep with other people.

I don't say this to upset you, I say it to make you realize what you are potentially dealing with. To face the reality of the situation. Very very very few people walk away from a marriage where there are no other accentuating circumstances (physical abuse, addiction, sexual abuse of others) without having another person they are leaving for.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018