OM moved in to live with my XW and my kids at some point during the last month.
Ouch, that had to hurt. Sorry man.
But don't worry about the toddler being more attached to OM. There can be only one daddy, and that is LC.
Regarding the rest of your post, wow, you have certainly done some self-growing. Impressive. Remember when You were a scared little LC and a giant mess just 5 or 6 months ago? Well done.
I'll try searching for your YouTube videos (it's probably against the rules to direct us there), cause I want what LC is having ;-)
Just promise me that you every now and then shut down the computer, close the books, put on some of that extremely expensive cologne, and go out and let the ladies experience the new, improved, awesome LC.
M:46 WXW:40 T:20 M:13 D3,D8,D10 BD:11/12/16 D:12/14/16 OM confirmed 01/20/17