A question in the meantime though. I mentioned that I finally did the Facebook thing. If I send my W a "friend" request, would that be considered pursuing? As I said, she still has a picture of the both of us as the profile pic, which I assume is to keep up appearances. This is what I want to do until the time comes that we can't. My dilemma is that I'm not sure how she would receive that request. Pursuing? Spying? Just take it in stride?
