2nd Round MLC ? Dejavue?

[marina7]

Ruhappy,

Unfortunately about him thinking that his sister is mad because of you is true, your H will blame you for everything and I mean everything so get ready as petty it might sound is going be your fault. Remember is not your fault your dealing with someone who will blame everyone for his problems except himself.
My W got a flat tire it was my fault I got yelled and curse at and was told "this is why we will never get back together" it came a point I started saying it before W said it.
W would use that as a weapon at the beginning it broke me mentally when saying things to me now is like whatever.

Ruhappy one thing I have learned is always protect your finances and kids in my case we where not legally married so W taking all the money and left me with nothing. The only thing I could do was take W to small claim court I figured it was a lesson learn a hard lesson but I learned not to give anyone that much power and authority. I was also very transparent I trusted my W with my LIFE and everything I had. Now I am financially struggling and credit cards W spend before the bd which like all of us I didn't see it coming.

Please protect yourself, even if you work it out in the Marriage protecting your finances has nothing to do with your love for him. All I can say people in WAW or MLC have same patterns they are selfish, self center, constantly shopping and buying new toys.
My W has paid all her cc and school loans so she can buy a house and car and tells our kids she buying a home in California too not sure how W going do this when we have 3 kids and very soon W will be paying child support and medical health and half of any sports or activity. We have 3 kids and another 15yrs of her having to pay child support. I love my W very much God knows I love this women but if we do get back together it will never be the same and I will protect me and my kids before I could think of w and w NEEDS.

Stay strong and don't forget take care of yourself.

Take it a day at a time