Without proof of an affair im not sure who the real walkaway is in your case.

If no affair, i feel like you might be actually one of the few on here that has the potential to make this work.

Like maybe its just a misunderstanding of the sexes, combined with the hardships of being in a 2 income family.

If thats the case MWDs books are great at teaching how 1 person really can alter the dynamics.

I highly suggest one of the on call DB therapists. They were much better then any of the counselors we went to.

Babysitting, good therapy is a lot cheaper then a divorce. Have you thought that through?

M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer