How is she blocking your access to GAL? Is she working during the time you are with your child? Or is she going out?
One of the difficult things abput beimg a parent is that it takes time and committment and when they are little, its difficult to have a hobby. Any way ypu counselor can look at both of ypur schedules to work on getting time for both of you.
Regarding intimacy, your wife might find it challenging sensing your resenment torwards her. It does not sound like you guys spend time together. What is her love language? What is yours? Intimacy usually comes when needs are getting met.
I think i read your post wrong. I thought you discovered an affair in fall of 2017. Did you? Yes she is acting aloof. But she says she wants to work on marriage. Im not sure of she is havimg an affaor or if maybe you are saying she is to act and give yourself an excuse to stonewall amd disappear or disconnect. This wpuld be crucial to know.
What does she say she needs in order to work on the marroage. You say intimacy. What would she need to brimg back that feeling.
