I am too weak to stop doing what is definitely not working.
Gisela,
You need to give up the idea that you have any control in any of this. These guys are leaving for lots of different reasons. Many of which might not have any thing to do with you.
Let him go. Grieve. Make yoir life great without him. Eventually you will realize hes just not a committed person. Thats the only control you do have.
