waw maybe #3

[bhappy2]

LH, no not mean at all... just not being nice like as in cordial. If I am going to the store I would ask do you need anything, now I do not ask. If I was leaving the house I would always say bye, see you later, nope not anymore.

Temp check: I walk in the door and she says I swiped your soup. I said ok and kept on doing what I was doing no further conversation needed. I had bought chinese food for me and the kids while she was at work and when she came home she took the soup. I did not need to know why or for what reason.

Temp check: S22 lost his car keys she asked can you keep an eye out for them...Ok and kept on moving. I do not even want to talk to her anymore. She already knew that I was looking for his keys because she heard him telling me about it.

I refuse to be mean to her, thats not how I was before BD and I do not want to be after. I just found out she cashed in her 401K after she consulted her attorney, this is a big problem for her right now. Also she let S21 health insurance lapse... this is also a problem.

The fact of the matter is my W is completely out of her mind and her life is really in shambles. This is not my mess to fix anymore.