V, I'm not rejecting overtures, but if there is to be a new R there needs to a proper Reconciliation.

My fear is of slipping into old patterns without Reconciliation.

All this niceness is confusing and suspicious.

She is full of stories now. About work, carpool etc.
I validate a lot.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.