I have been truly detaching and DB for the last 3 weeks and I feel great. I was doing it all wrong thinking that I should still be nice to the W but I realize now that its just not going to work. She has temp checked me 3 times and all 3 times I politely said OK and moved on.
GAL:
Joined a running club, love this as I get discounts on races and I can voluteer to work races then get entry for free.
Joined a social club and I will be inducted in April, they have activities every single weekend and sometimes during the week. Also have a private bar where memeber can go whenever they want, very friendly atmosphere.
RE-joined my dart team we play once a week and I finally took off a day from work to play. This has really helped me as I now only work 5 days a week.
Nothing new between W and me as far as Lawyer talk, she was told that our MH has to be sold and all of a sudden her L stopped returning calls. She filed on Jan.12th, lawyers consulted each other on jan.21st went oer all finacials and now we are at a stand still.
I am in a much better place mentally and I look forward to the next chapeter of my life.
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20
