Living in the Present, only Looking Forward

[DonH]

I've got to say Coconut, for a guy who really doesn't like/want to do a lot of things beyond your comfort zone, you are awesome at doing just that! You first pushed yourself to do the meet ups and now salsa for a terrible dancer! I wish I had those guts. Actually I do, there is not much, if pushed, I won't do. The problem is, I don't often push myself. I HATE to dance - absolutely HATE IT even though I know it would help my social activity. I'm just very impressed by your GAL

As for the "committing to date" I get it. Once you cross that line it's hard to go back. Not hard for me, mind you, but hard, or perhaps confusing for the woman. Am I correct ladies? It's just hard to go from a real date to just hanging out as friends. I think that's what you are saying. Still, I've had multiple dating Rs without ever going on a single date. Confusing? What I'm saying is we do enough together either in groups or alone as friends to know she's not for me. It's almost like dating without really dating. Am I understanding you Nut?