Former WH, now LBS Please Help, close to Give Up

[betheoa]

Hi there,
today i i am not so sad, there was moments i felt gilt how i left my kids, but i know why i am doing this.

In the morning my WW called, and ask me where i am, so i answer i drink coffee in the hotel i stayed. Then she tells me there is a problem with the breaks of her car (she use the car to go for work and drive kids to school). She ask me would i care about the car, or she must do it by her self. I answer that will manege it and inform her when will be done. I was very short, and not try to hold the talk at all.


At the afternoon, she write FB, about she use the debit car of my account, to put fuel in the car, she write that she use the car because i left them like furniture (aka. without give then any money or what ever support - this is not true, i our house there is money),She also write that she will give me back the money she take for the fuel (it is not common for use to separate any spends. She also write that she is scared about their life (her and the kids), because of the car issue. (the whole text was not in pleasant tone).
I respond shortly, when i contact with the service, i will let you know. This will be probably Saturday or Sunday.

I have question:
1. Should i go to do sport activities with her and the kids, or i should avoid any interaction together with her.
2. Next day is a mother/woman day in my country, should i do something like a text/call to note this. In the past 5-6 years ago i was gilt with neglecting and miss to note/flowers/presents many important days/anniversaries and so on.

She was in FB contact with OM2 all day.