Hi Enstar, yeah I'm following the NC rule pretty closely.
Only time I make contact with her is regarding stuff with the kids and that is very to the point and polite. I only made contact yesterday because she had mentioned counselling after her trip and its obvious she doesnt want it, just wants to keep me dangling as PLan Z, lol. I've had enough of that crap..
I needed to take back the respect that I've lost and actually genuinely move on. In my mind, its over anyway and I'm in the acceptance phase I guess.

Busy GALing,joined a new gym, working on new projects and being Super dad, ha!


M-45
W-32
D-10 D-8
Together 11 years
Married 6 years
Separated 6/2017
ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011)
EA 11/16
PA Same time??
NC, detachment started 12/11/17
D aug 2019