I don't want a divorce

[KitCat]

So I've backed off... not as well as I should I am sure but its enough to show things are different I hope.

Well a few days ago I let H know I took a day off because of the gun and knife show if he wanted to go. H said "you want to go?"... I said I was available OR I would just go to a winery or something. My 180's!!! I had a 3 day weekend. I dropped it and never brought it up again.

H let me know that there is plenty of overtime he can get and plans to work at least every other weekend.

I got H up for work last night and said I had to get going. H asked where I just stated laundermat (dryer died... :-(). Didn't wait for response and just left.

I didn't expect to hear from him but H texted from work last night that if I wanted to go to the gun/knife show OR a winery that he would go with me!!!!!!!!

I didn't beg or place pressure. I had never planned to bring it up again. This was all on him. He is wanting to spend time with me. :-)

H came home this morning and he is more loving and affectionate than he has been in months. When I told him I missed getting the recycle out today and I was sorry he said he had forgotten too an it was just as much his fault... WOAH.

This is taking a tiny baby step in the right direction!!!