In limbo with WW on antidepressants

[SteveLW]

Wife's birthday is coming up in 10 days. The big 5-0. And she is not handling well.

Wants no party. No gifts. No acknowledgement that it is occurring. Even said she might go away for a few days to deal with it herself. I think she was feeling me out on that last one.

So any advice on how to proceed? What should I do? D is pushing for a party but I want to respect W's wishes on that. I feel like if we can get past her birthday then things will smooth out. I think a lot of her issues has been turning 50 and wanting to still be sexy, wanted, sexual, attractive, etc.