We never went for lunch, just the barest minimum of contact regarding kids and stuff the last 2 months. She tried to make some contact with my parents while they were here but they were unimpressed. She went to Costa Rica last week. I'm genuinely not interested in her life anymore so didnt contact her. She also spent $2k on a holiday and she owes me all that and more on old credit cards but she doesnt give a f**k. She's trying to find herself or something, LMFAO.
She's back now and obviously no talk of counselling. Fine by me, I've been completely detaching and GALing well. I really dont think there's any hope at all for the marriage and she would have to really turn it around if she wanted us to work. Maybe I shouldnt have but I contacted her today to say that we were separated 10 months and that we were done. I really meant it The next thing will be divorce. Someone had to say it, she's just been stringing me along and I need to get my life back. I feel better, no regrets at all. Not going to change anything in the short term regarding family and custody stuff. I'm sure she's still lying and seeing OM but I will never know. He can have her.
Also, car woes today, $1k in repairs. Its a been a tough few days.
On positive side, hanging out with my kids watching Futurama. Just gave them some music lessons(they play bass and piano), I'm so proud :-)
M-45 W-32 D-10 D-8 Together 11 years Married 6 years Separated 6/2017 ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011) EA 11/16 PA Same time?? NC, detachment started 12/11/17 D aug 2019
