Can't tell you what the planner thing means if anything.
I can tell you at the beginning of my crisis point with H he was CONSTANTLY on his phone. Texting all kinds of people. Mostly female.
It drove me bananas... AND, he knew it irked me.
The minute I stopped letting it get to me. Didn't care who or what he was doing on his phone did started to stop.
Looking back he was just unhappy and reaching and grasping at anything to keep himself preoccupied - to not focus on us and trying to find his happiness.
